Tip for other bi women: if you want men to get really mad at you, just mention that you have higher standards for men than for women or that you might prefer women over men.
God yes. This.
While I currently have a male partner that I adore- I certainly am significantly more particular with choosing men to date than women- I’m more inclined to offer more women the opportunity to date me than men- part of which I think stems from my fear of men and from being a rape survivor. Nontheless, men always get angry when you don’t pick them over a woman. If they can’t ‘join in on the fun’ with you and your female partner, then you are forever guilted or told that your female partner isn’t good enough, that you could do better, why are you with a fat girl?, etc…etc…Basically if men can’t join you or jack off to you- it’s a problem for you to have a same sex female partner.
Which is bullshit.
Also, women are just prettier to me? :)